Why you're not finding the right guy and why it's not your fault
- Carol Miller

- Jul 9
- 1 min read

By Carol Miller
If you've ever stared at your phone after another dead-end date wondering, "Is it me?" You're not alone. And your not broken.
I work with smart, capable women, many in mid life, who are doing everything "right" but still end up in relationships that go nowhere. They're tired of the chase, tired of being let down, and tired of hearing advice that doesn't actually help.
The truth?
You're not failing at love. You've just been pulled into patterns you were never taught to recognize.
Maybe you keep choosing the emotionally unavailable guy.
Maybe you find yourself over-giving, trying to "earn" love.
Or maybe, deep down, part of you believes real love isn't possible anymore.
These aren't flaws. They're learned responses, built from old experiences, old beliefs, and survival strategies that once served you... but don't anymore.
The good news?
Once you see what's been running the show, you can stop repeating what hasn't worked. And start making choices that actually lead somewhere.
This blog (and everything I create) is here to help you do just that:
Break the cycle
Feel more confident
And finally build the kind of love that feels right. Not rushed, not confusing. And definitely not another disappointment.
You just need a new approach.
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